When Is a Dildo Too Big?

Big Dildo Guide With Tips And Tricks

Sometimes women crave for pleasure that is set according to their rhythm but what about when a Dildo Too Big. Dildo’s will make you go “ah” and “oooh” according to your chosen pace and timing for sex. At the same time, they also make great items when libido strikes you and your partner is not around. As the saying goes, “do not bite off more than you can chew”, this realistically applies when choosing the dildo that works best for you. This article will provide you with some tips on how too know when is a dildo too big. 

1. Painful to When Inserted

A dildo is too big if it causes pain when inserted in your holes. This overpowers the stretchiness of your sex organ. The in and out motion when using a dildo causes the muscles inside your holes to irritate and possibly become inflamed. The irritation and the inflammation lead to pain as you continue using the dildo. You might like this at first but watch out for this may lead to serious injuries in the future.

2. Length Exceeds Up Ahead Your Navel – A Dildo Must Not Be Longer that Your Forearm

The right dildo that you should use has its tips that just barely reach the lower part of your navel or even shorter. A dildo is too big if its length exceeds way up ahead where your navel is located. To understand better, a dildo is too big if it is longer than your forearm. During usage, you’ll know that the dildo is too long if you feel that it goes way beyond your cervix. You will feel a tingling sensation in your abdomen when this happens.

3. Hard to Pull Out When Inserted on the Anus

Commonly a dildo when inserted on the anus will be easy to pull out if it fits right for you. On the other hand, you’ll know that a dildo is too big for you if it becomes hard to pull when it is way too far on the inside. The reason for this is simple. A dildo that is too big for you is hard to pull out when inserted in the anus because it gets stuck due to the compact space inside. To understand better, try thinking of a ring that is inserted on a large finger. It is easy to insert the finger inside the ring, but taking the ring off might get some work. The same applies to a large dildo and your anus.

4. Causes Bleeding

A dildo is too big for you if it causes bleeding on your anus or vagina. As you use a very large dildo, during the pulling and pushing motion, its girth intensely rubs against your vaginal wall or the sides of the rectum. This intense rubbing may only cause a little bit of pain at first which you might enjoy but continuous usage will eventually lead to internal bleeding due to severe irritation on the inside.

5. Cannot Fit in Your Mouth

Another way for you to know if a dildo is too big for you is to place it in your mouth. A dildo is just right for you if it doesn’t cause any pain in the jaws and doesn’t result in breathing problems as you suck it. On the other hand, a dildo is too big if it causes your jaws to cramp, makes you breathless, and makes you nauseous.

6. You Cannot Grasp It in Your Hands or Is Hard to Hold

A dildo of the right size can easily be grasped and held. This is because a dildo, after all, is designed to provide pleasure through the use of your hands. You’ll know when a dildo is too big for you if you cannot grasp it to the point that your fingers do not touch each other. Also, a dildo might be too large for if you have trouble maintaining your hold on it as you continuously put it in and out of your vagina or anus.

Should You Avoid Using a Dildo Too Big?

Big dildos may inflict damage when misused. When used extensively, a dildo that is too big can cause severe inflammation and irritation on your anus and vagina. For example, a very large dildo causes damage to your rectum and anus making bowel control very hard to manage. Furthermore, inserting it on your vagina may cause irritation which leads to bleeding, infection or STD’s and STI’s. If you plan to use a large dildo we advise that you buy a training kit. By using one, you’ll be safe from the damage caused by inserting a large dildo in your holes.

To wrap up, we cannot say that you should avoid big dildos. All that we want you to realize is that before using a big one, training and a lot of practice with a training kit is required for your safety.